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By: Suzannah Weiss When I first became sexually active at age seventeen, I had what I’d come to view as a “problem”: I wasn’t able to orgasm with a partner, even though I could alone.   I didn’t think of it as a problem initially. I loved my orgasm-less sexual encounters. But after hearing partners talk about how badly they wanted to make me come, I started to feel bad about it. As if by not coming, I was being ungrateful for their efforts. Medical professionals didn’t help. On the form I had to fill out to see my college’s nurse, they asked me to check off any sexual problems I had, and that was one of them. When I brought it up to my psychiatrist, realizing my antidepressants were probably the culprit, he asked me if that was why my last relationship ended. But I didn’t want to go off my antidepressants, and I considered sex (I’m  defining sex  as any sexual activity, not just intercourse) something to enjoy for the pleasure of the whole thing, not a ...

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                                                                                        She Loves BALI. Located eight to nine degrees south of the Equator in Indonesia, Bali is azure blue skies, turquoise ocean, rainbows of coral reefs, tropical fish, luscious green palm trees, lush gardens, impressive volcanoes and riots of colorful Balinese clothing. It's a must-see island guaranteed to please the adventuress in you. Warm, kind people... The Balinese people are the warmest, kindest people I have ever met on my travels. Even the traffic does...

Do you ever look at your bank account and wonder, “Where did it all go?” There are probably as many reasons why we overspend as there are reasons why we shouldn’t. The first step in changing our behavior is to recognize the triggers and to consciously confront them when we’re tempted to give in. But if we truly want to overcome overspending in the long run, it’s also important to examine the more deep-seated reasons why we do it. Here are common underlying causes for overspending and how to overcome them. 1. You’re Using Plastic There is something about taking a debit or credit card out of our wallet that is so much easier and less painful than counting multiple bills. The downside of carrying cards is the ease with which you can overspend. The pain of seeing your funds diminish when you hand over cash actually acts an effective barrier to overspending. The Fix:  Try using cash only for a week. Hit the ATM on Sunday and take out the amount of money you fe...